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Neil Thompson’s Lessons for Living – Don’t reply in anger

Neil Thompson’s Lessons for Living – Don’t reply in anger

Anger is a powerful emotion, and one that no one is immune to. The physiological effect it has on us can be a strong spur to action, and so the temptation to respond there and then can be an intensely felt one. However, responding there and then can be highly problematic, as the intense emotion of the situation can distort our perceptions. It can also lead to an escalation in which our anger-driven response can ‘up the stakes’ emotionally and thereby lead to a worsening of the situation, rather than defuse it. In addition, it can mean that we are responding without a full understanding of the situation, and that could lead to making the situation worse. The traditional idea…
Dr Neil Thompson
August 28, 2024
Human rights watchdog calls on governments to address major disparities faced by some ethnic minorities in England and Wales

Human rights watchdog calls on governments to address major disparities faced by some ethnic minorities in England and Wales

The Equality and Human Rights Commission (EHRC) raised concerns to the United Nations (UN) about the different experiences many people from different ethnic minority groups face across healthcare, justice and employment in England and Wales. The EHRC’s latest report, submitted to the Committee for the International Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Racial Discrimination (CERD), highlights serious issues. Click here to read more
Dr Neil Thompson
August 28, 2024
Seth Godin’s blog – Multiple choice

Seth Godin’s blog – Multiple choice

“None of the above” is often the best option. We’re regularly confronted with multiple-choice questions. The foundation is already established, the options are already limited, do you want this or that? But the real questions lie in the assumptions that happened before you were even asked. When a developer brings you six website options, they’re skipping over critical questions about structure, upkeep, user experience and whether or not a site is the answer to your problem. Click here to read more
Dr Neil Thompson
August 28, 2024
Closing the gender pay gap

Closing the gender pay gap

Stereotypes contribute towards the mental health crisis among children and young people, are at the root of girls’ problems with body image and eating disorders, higher male suicide rates and violence against women and girls. Stereotyped assumptions also significantly limit career choices and contribute to the gender pay gap. Ultimately, stereotypes limit children’s freedom and stop them from being themselves. But we know parents, care givers, teachers and practitioners all want to make a difference and there are small, practical ways to challenge stereotypes in our interactions with children. Click here to read more
Dr Neil Thompson
August 28, 2024
Neil Thompson’s Lessons for Living – Why here? Why now?

Neil Thompson’s Lessons for Living – Why here? Why now?

When people come to us for help or reach the last straw when it becomes clear that they cannot continue without help, it can be very helpful to ask: Why here? Why now? In other words, it pays to be clear about what has made the difference between carrying on as before and seeking change. It is often the case that the problem(s) people need help with have been around for some time, but they have not sought help before. So, why now? What has been the key factor that has made the difference. The answer to that question may tell us a great deal about the situation, how it is perceived by the person(s) concerned and therefore what it…
Dr Neil Thompson
August 13, 2024